Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”

Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.

He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.

You can probably relate. I know I can. I’ve been there about a billion times. Heck! – I used to be so scared to approach an attractive woman that I’d imagine her steamrolling me, leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool is that – I’d disqualify myself without even talking to her.

If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.

Most of the time, guys pick up girls for their beauty alone – and girls know this, my friend.

Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.

But this, my friend, is about to change…

Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who’s minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.

Even if he puts up a fight, it’s game over – she already hooked him (although, if she’s physically attracted to him, there’s a glimmer of hope).

But unbeknownst to them, I’m not the passive, dumb trout they’re used to catching. I’m a great white shark ready for battle. The second they sense they’ve hooked me in, I taunt them with my own tantalizing bait.

They chomp down and – hot diggity – I’ve got them on my hook and I’m reeling them in.

Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.

Next, I’ll complain, “Ow… you hurt me.”

Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”

I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”

This not only hooks the woman into an interaction with you but also builds sexual tension.

When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.

Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.

With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.

In all sexual interactions, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can’t chase each other at the same time.

With few exception excluded, you want to set the frame that you’re the Prize and the woman is the suitor trying to win you over.

Josh Lubens, a world famous dating coach, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over a decade. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.

I’ve got a question for you

Have you ever been shot down by a woman? – be honest. I, for example, have been rejected more times than I’d like to admit.

For the collective average male, rejection plain sucks. There’s nothing fun about it.

But a select group of ladies’ men actually enjoy being rejected.

You might be thinking, “Sounds like these guys are masochists.” Far from it. They revel in rejection because of a few secrets they possess that most men don’t.

Most men think when a woman rejects them, they are doomed.

But ladies’ men knowWhat kills most men’s chances with a woman is their reaction her rejecting them.

Plus ladies’ men have the skills and knowledge to mutate rejection into attraction at their whim.

I’m going to teach you step-by-step how to do this, so the next time a woman rejects you, you can mutate it into attraction.

But first I want to introduce you to some key attraction principles. These principles lay the foundation for what you’re about to learn.

1). Prizability: Women are attracted to men they perceive as the Prize. Prizability is the degree to which a woman sees you as the Prize.

2). The Meta-Frame: Every male-female interaction has a meta-frame or underlying meaning. When you establish and maintain the Meta-Frame that you are the Prize the woman is trying to win over, attracting her becomes as easy as tying your shoe. But when the meta-frame is her as the Prize you are trying to win over, triggering attraction in her is next to impossible.

Imagine talking to a woman and just as things are getting hot and heavy she hisses the all too familiar words: “I have a boyfriend.”

If you interpret these words as her rejecting you and walk away or apologize for hitting on her, she becomes the Prize in the interaction. Bad thing!

If you take her words as meaning her boyfriend is a barrier you have to get past and attempt to prove to her that you’d make a better boyfriend than her current one, once again, you’re setting the meta-frame that she’s the Prize you are trying to win over.

“So how in the world can you mutate the words ‘I have boyfriend’ into attraction?” you might be wondering.

Instead of interpreting the crippling words “I have a boyfriend” as meaning that she’s rejecting you, interpret them as her trying to impress you.

So the next time a woman says, “I have a boyfriend,” try: “Good. In the morning he can bring us breakfast in bed but if the orange juice isn’t fresh, I’m gonna club him.”

One of two things will happen…

She’ll completely get sucked into the Meta-frame that you are the Prize she is trying to win over.

Or…

She won’t fall into your Meta-frame but will know that you are unwilling to get sucked into hers.

Josh Lubens, a world famous relationship expert, authored Real World Seduction 2.0 under the pseudonym Swinggcat. He specializes in teaching men how to attract women . If you’d like to master the art of how to attract women, check out his site.

I want to bring to your attention to an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with – whether they’re aware of it or not.

Attractive women rarely – if ever – hit the town by themselves. They’re almost always with their friends.

You may approach a sexy girl with ease. But if you don’t know how to woo her friend, they’ll drag her away from you.

Here’s a painless way to get inside her social circle…

Ask the group for their opinion on something

If you do this right, you’ll engage the whole group in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here’s a simple example that comes from Neil Strauss

Ask the whole group, “Who lies more – men or women?”

This will get everyone yapping.

Then ask, “Who do you think is more likely to cheat on their partners – men or women?”

The men from her social circle will argue, “Women.” The women will argue, “Men.”

This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?

You become the ringleader amongst her friends. So you have the power to take the conversation with them in any direction you choose.

Now you can hit on the girl and her friends won’t care. That’s because they see you as part of her social circle.

One last point: your energy level needs to be a little bit higher than the group. Otherwise, you will bring down their energy level and they will get bored.

Likewise, if your energy level is too high, you will freak them out.

Either way, they’ll ask you to leave.

Here is your homework: Think of five interesting questions you can ask groups of people. These are your conversational gambits.

The next time you’re at a nightclub and see a woman you want to meet, infiltrate her social circle with one of these gambits. I think you’ll be surprised how well it works.

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It’s happened to us all…

You’re attracted to a girl.

The only problem is…

She feels no attraction for you.

Can you change how she feels?

Most dating experts will tell you, “If a woman isn’t physically attracted to you, move on.”

Do not do this. You’re cutting yourself short.

Despite what you look like, you can use a few simple yet powerful attraction secrets to trigger attraction in her.

Today I’m going to teach you one of them. It comes from the dating coach Swinggcat and is called a “Tension Loop”

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.

My favorite Swinggcat Tension Loop is Push-Pull.

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a female away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.

Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.

Let’s look at an example…

Say to a girl, “You have the most beautiful smile I’ve seen tonight.”

She will say, “Thanks.”

Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”

She’ll demand, “But I wanna be number one.”

Say to her, “Wow. You’re a fighter. I’m promoting you to number three.”

She may whine, “But I wanna be # 1.”

Caution, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to number four.

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Have you ever wanted to talk to a girl but your mind went blank?

Not to worry.

Every man on the planet has experienced this.

And it plains sucks.

On top of that, lots of women close up when they sense a male stranger is attracted to them.

Today I’m going to teach you a simple technique so you’ll never be at a loss for words again with a girl you’d like to meet.

It’s called the “Opinion Opener.”

Instead of letting a girl know you’re attracted to her, you’re gonna ask her an innocent question first.

Almost all women will be more than happy to give you feedback. And they won’t have the slightest idea that you’re hitting on them.

This will give you time to feel them out before making it obvious that you want something more than their opinion.

But you don’t throw boring questions at them, such as: “What’s your name?” “What do you do?” “Do you come here often?”

Your questions need to be emotionally relevant to them – things like love triangles between celebrities, relationships… and so on.

There’s an opinion opener I’ve successfully been using for years and I got it from the legendary seducer Swinggcat.

Here it is:

You: Hey girls, I want your opinion on something.

Girls: Go ahead.

You: My neighbor just got a baby boy pug dog and baby girl wiener dog. She wants to name them after an ’80s or ’90s pop duet or couple.

(Note: this may seem like a ridiculous question to ask women. But trust me – what was funny and interesting to you second grade is funny and interesting to them now.)

Now you’ve piqued their interested. It’s time to flirt and tease them a bit.

Maybe say, as Swinggcat suggests, “Whoever comes up with the best names, gets a thousand dollars. If you give me a good name, fifty dollars has your name written all over it.”

The girls will beg, “That’s not fair. I want at least half.”

Maybe chide, “Gawd… you’re so demanding. Now you’re only gonna get $25.

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The problem many would be persuasion artist faced was simple: How could they run hypnotic language patterns in a real life situation? In real life conditions where the art of persuasion is being used, you do not have the space and the time that is required to install hypnotic language into someone\’s unconscious mind. Not only did this serve as a problem, it also interfered with the consistency of the effectiveness of covert hypnosis tactics.

Now the playing field has been evened out because social strategy has been integrated into the tactics of covert hypnosis. Now, for the first time, a persuasion artist has the chance to persuade a person anytime and anyplace. To make this new development in the social sciences even more significant, for the first time the art of persuasion actually is getting people better jobs, better relationships, and better lives.

The obstacles one faces in achieving their goals are often the direct opposition of other people. Other people have the power to give you raises at work, better jobs, and to make the decision to date you. Since the cooperation of other people is so imperative to getting what you want in life, it is required now more than ever to learn the tactics used to softly overcome the opposition of other people.

If you master the cooperation principle, you will easily get people to open doors for you because you will be able to overcome the resistance of other people. By acquiring more cooperation from other people, you will also acquire more opportunity and power in life. This means that the art of persuasion is not a hard art. You do not meet force with force. Instead, by mastering the art of softness, you will easily gain the cooperation of others and create win win situations.

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Isn’t it interesting how many times people are given unfair labels just because they are dating. For example, a girl who is being cautious and safe is called “frigid”. A man who is being pro-active is called a “player”. All they want to do though, is find and date partners at their own pace.

These types of label are many and varied and they are a problem. They make you feel like you need to justify your dating decisions. It can go further than that too. They can change your decision making process putting you in situations you don’t want to be in. They can put you off dating altogether.

The label “player” is coming up quite frequently at the moment. Its typically used to describe a man who dates many women and discusses his dates with other men. That is what this article is about.

I find it very strange that a man who is open to discussing his romantic life, with the intent of learning and improving himself, is labelled a player.

There are different rules for men and women in this regard. It is very acceptable for women to gather and discuss their relationships, learning from each other and offering advice. There are groups of men who do the same, but its very rare and always deliberate. Its not a natural state of affairs for men to gather and communicate like this.

What this means is that women are afforded the luxury of learning about men and dating, through the sharing of experience. Comparatively, men are not. Men by and large must learn as individuals, from their own mistakes.

I believe there are two factors which contribute to this. Firstly, men are pressured by women along the lines of “a gentleman never kisses and tells”. This expectation exists and is held dear by all the women who are quite happy to meet their friends and discuss even the most intimate details of all their experiences. There really is a lack of balance here. Secondly, men are often very competitive among themselves, particularly when it comes to women. This causes meaningless banter and bravado when they’d be better served with honest communication and the exchanging of ideas.

This causes a big issue in our society today. If you, as a man, actively pursue learning and self improvement in the romantic part of your life, you will create a more harmonious and enjoyable experience for yourself AND the women you are dating. This is a good thing. If being called a player is a barrier to this (ie. it makes you feel uncomfortable about sharing your experiences with other me and/or looking for advice), it becomes a inhibitor to your happiness and the happiness of the women you date. That cannot be good!

So, if you are a single man, you probably know already what I mean. If you are interested in self improvement, particularly when it comes to meeting and dating, you are not a player so don’t be afraid. Just find some other men who are already doing this and all will be fine. There are communities of men who are doing this already and have joined together specifically to improve themselves in this manner. The key to this though is to always do it in a manner that is compassionate to the women you are dating.

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